Month: May 2020

May 22, 2020

How To Give Oral Sex

How To Give Oral Sex

Blow Jobs

Blow jobs can be a pleasurable experience for both the giver and the receiver. It will take time to develop oral sex skills as you learn what is pleasurable.

  • Tease Him: Slowly run your hands over his mound with light delicate touches. Tease him, be gentle with your movements. Get him to take his clothes off. Massage his inner thigh area and run a finger or nail down his body. Gently touch his nipples and lick them if he enjoys them being stimulated. Cup his balls and gently massage them. Kiss down his neck and stomach.
  • Stimulate the Penis Head: The most sensitive part of his penis is the head and his frenulum which contains the most nerve endings. Lightly caress your lips against it teasing him that you are about to pleasure his cock. Gently suck, swirl and flick his penis head and frenulum.
  • Cock Ring: Hold the base of his penis around with your finger and thumb. Your finger and thumb will act as a cock ring, which will trap his blow flow inside his erection making his erection become harder, longer lasting and bigger. He will enjoy seeing his erection at its maximum size.
  • Give Him Long Licks and Go Deeper: When you are ready you can give him long licks from the base of his penis to the very tip. Place your mouth on his penis and gently go down and up. You can use slight suction if you would like but keep it limited. Keep your teeth away from his erection at all times.
  • If He Can’t Fit Your Mouth: If you can’t take his whole erection in your mouth or you don’t want to. Wrap a hand around the base of his erection, jerk his shaft with the movements of your mouth.
  • Make Eye Contact: Make eye contact during the blow job, this will give him visual stimulation that you really want to pleasure his penis with your mouth. It will also display a level of sexual confidence which will make him very turned on.
  • Moan: When you are giving a blow job you can make moaning noises that will send vibrations down his shaft.
  • Give Him Control: You can grab his hands and place them on your head so he can control how he deeply and how fast he would like the blow job to be. If he gets to passionately involved and it gets too much for you, pull your head away and ask him to be gentle.
  • Provide Rhythm: People find it easier to orgasm if there is a certain rhythm to the blow job.
  • Gently Suck: If it gets to monotonous perform an 8 ball blow job on him which involves places your lips over the tip of his penis and giving 7 shallow sucks followed by 1 deeper suck. Then performing 6 shallow sucks followed by 2 deeper sucks.
  • Add Flavour: Flavoured lubricants such as Wicked, Kama Sutra, Wet Stuff and Id Lube will add a hint of flavour. Lubricant can be used for oral sex or hand jobs only but is not recommended for penetrative sex. If you would like additional protection of STI’s you can buy flavoured condoms like Naked Flavours 12 Pack so you have an assortment to choose from.
  • Take a Break: You may need to take a break from giving the blow job to avoid neck, head or jaw pain. You can continue on with foreplay or get him to give himself a hand job whilst you display how you pleasure yourself or how sexually you can touch your body.

  • Rehydrate: If you are prone to dehydration you can keep a glass of water nearby in case you need to take a sip. The cool liquid will also bring a cold sensation to your blow job.

Cunninglus

Cunninglus is oral sexual stimulation of the clitoris or vulva. Cunninglus increases sexual arousal levels, self-lubrication levels and promotes relaxation. In some cases, if you provide pleasurable oral sex, penetrative sex can last a shorter amount of time.

  • Tease Her: Before you begin oral make her really want it by teasing her. Begin by kissing her passionately on her lips, neck and body. Move down her body and position yourself comfortably between her legs. Ensure your arms are in a good position to massage her body, breasts and nipples when you are giving oral.
  • Start Slowly: Be slow and gentle as the clitoris has a large amount of nerve endings making it sensitive and she may not be fully aroused yet. Begin slowly licking in larger circles and work your way into the middle. If she isn’t fully aroused, the clitoris could be too sensitive for strong flicks. Work towards a steady pace that does not stop.
  • Pace Yourself: Some women enjoy a completely steady and unchanging clitoral stimulation whereas other women completely adore not knowing what to expect. Ask her what she prefers.
  • Pay Attention: Pay attention to what she enjoys and ask her what she likes during oral sex. You can get her to apply pressure onto your hand/head or listen to the moaning or heavy breathing she makes when you do something she enjoys. When you find something she thoroughly enjoys do not discontinue or abruptly modify what you are doing. Settle on this method and do not stop until she orgasms or asks you to modify what you are doing.
  • Adapt to Change: She may like something one day and not enjoy it the next. On a daily, weekly, monthly or yearly basis you may need to change your oral technique. She might enjoy a different type of movement, pressure or speed.
  • Easy Oral: The easiest way to give oral is to keep your tongue soft, forgiving and totally level. Lick upwards, downwards or side to side on the vulva and clitoris.
  • Spell the Alphabet: For fun, spell the alphabet with your tongue. Find the letter’s that she most enjoys and stick to them. Repeat the letter until she asks you to change up your style. You can also give light suction on her clitoris.
  • Lift the Clitoral Hood: You can lift up the clitoral hood to find more directly stimulate the clitoris with your tongue.
  • G-Spot Massage: Place a finger inside her vagina to massage her G-Spot. Begin by gently massaging it and get her to tell you when she wants more this can help build up the orgasm further.
  • Display Affection: After she has reached orgasm you can relax with her and give her a hug if you wish. Ask her how you went, what she like and how you can improve for the future. More importantly, if you find something which she likes you can do it for next ti
May 22, 2020

Sex Guide

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Sex Guide

Questions

Here are some questions to ask yourself before you have sex:

  • Are you prepared to have sex? Determining whether to have sex for the very first time is a large event. The first question you ask yourself is “Am I Prepared For Sex?”. Being ready for sex is a personal decision. Only you can answer this question, no one can answer this question for you.
  • Did you really want to have sex? It is important to be honest and clear with your personal views of whether you would like to have sex. If you have a gut feeling that you shouldn’t, that is a warning sign that you are not ready to have sex.
  • What are the advantages and disadvantages of having sex? Write on a pieces of paper your advantages and disadvantages of having sex to keep a clear view of your thoughts.
  • Does having sex impact your values or go against who you are? Think about the moral and ethical foundation of your personality. Will having sex at the time reflect who you are?
  • Does having sex impact your education or career goals? Will having sex hinder you progressing for your short term or long term goals?
  • Will you experience emotional or physical problems if you have sex? Our emotions can play a big role during and after sex. If you are not mentally prepared for sex, you may need to wait until you feel comfortable.
  • Is somebody coercing you to have sex? If you feel pressured or forced to have sex, don’t have sex!
  • Do your family and friends support your decision? If your family or friends don’t support you having sex for the first time you should ask yourself why they don’t. Maybe they have a completely logical view.
  • Would you like to be in a committed relationship for your first sexual experience? Do you love, respect and trust the person you want to have sex with?Does the person you want to have sex with love, respect and trust you? If you don’t have positive feelings for them or they don’t have positive feelings for you, having sex could have a negative emotional impact.
  • Is your partner ready to have sex? Find out whether your partner would like to have sex to.
  • Have you Found out more about sexual intercourse? Speak to a friend, a family member or a health care provider about having sex for the first time.
  • Are You Using Contraception? If you are ready for sex, you should be able to talk to a general practitioner about contraception. If you have a contraception method in place you can begin considering having sex.
  • Did you want to have sex because everyone else is having sex? Sometimes people can feel peer pressured into having sex because they feel left out.
Sex Guide

Foreplay

The first step engaging in sex is beginning with foreplay. Foreplay can range from stripping, kissing, massaging, mutual masturbation, oral sex and dry humping. With foreplay it is best to take things slowly and last as long as you both need it to. Foreplay will let your body get ready for sexual intercourse as women will develop natural lubrication whilst men will become erect. Take your time with discovering what foreplay is with your partner. If this is your first time, a lot of people can remain in foreplay for weeks or months before they even consider penetrative sex.

Penetration

Once you are both aroused, use your hand to guide the penis into the vagina. It takes a couple of times to find the entrance and work out how to insert the penis without discomfort. If you are finding it to be uncomfortable or to painful use some lubricant on the penis as well as on the entrance to your vagina.

To begin with, you may only want to put the tip of his penis inside so you can get used of the feeling. You can move your bodies slowly and gently until the vagina begins to expand to fit his penis. Make sure what you do feels good and if it feels uncomfortable say something. Ask each other questions to make sure you are both going okay.

If it is a woman’s first penetrative sexual encounter she may bleed during or after sex. This happens when a piece of skin called the hymen breaks. It is a thin piece of skin covering the vagina’s entrance.

Sex Positions

The best sex positions for intimacy and first time sex is traditional missionary or reverse missionary. Missionary are sex positions that give you control over the sexual experience whilst being able to display passion.

  • Traditional Missionary: Traditional missionary sex is when the woman lies down and the man is lying on top.
  • Reverse Missionary: Reverse missionary is when a man lies down and the women is lying on top.
  • Doggy Style: If you are ready to have some sexual fun with experimentation doggy style is a great position to hit the G-Spot.
  • Table Top: The woman lies on a table. The man holds your legs vertically in the air as he penetrates you.
  • The Spoon: If you are your partner are sleepy or just in the mood for sexual intercourse with not much effort, The Spoon sex position can meet your needs. He spoons you and enters you from behind. He can kiss your neck and talk into your ear.
  • The Lap Dance: He sits on a chair that has no arm rests and no sides. You lower yourself backwards into him. If your feet don’t touch the ground you will need to use heels.
  • The Quickie: The woman sits on a surface level to his penis. Wrap your legs around his waist.

After sometime of experimenting with movements and sex positions, you will both find select ones that give you more sexual pleasure. The pleasurable sensations can lead to either of you to come or reach a climax. Sometimes during sex you may not be able to reach a climax especially if it your first time.