Why Does Sex Make You Happy?

Why Sex Makes You Happy

1. The purpose of sex

Have you thought why sex makes you happy? From the moment the earth gave birth to life, reproduction was the only way for life to continue. Since then, multicellular organisms have gradually evolved into sexually reproducing life forms.

In layman’s terms, sexual reproduction requires the combination of both males and females to breed the next generation. For mammals, it requires mating to complete, accompanied by pleasure!

sex makes you happy

First of all, according to Darwin’s theory of evolution, it can be inferred that the pleasure of mating is the first mutation of some advanced life forms. Creatures that were initially happy to mate lived with their non-pleasure counterparts for many years.

When a certain period of time, because the external environment has changed, the food is reduced or the opposite sex is reduced. For creatures that are not happy to mate, they devote more energy to food or to cope with the influence of other external changes. For them, the mating itself does not matter and has no motivation. For creatures that have pleasure in mating, they will indulge in the enjoyment of that pleasure, and even if they are hungry, they are still motivated to mate. This is how their genes are passed on. And those animals that have no pleasure in mating have long been submerged in the long river of evolution!

But this explanation is not entirely correct, because mating is an animal instinct. It seems that at a certain age, this instinct is activated, and even if the animal has never tried the experience of mating, it will push the animal to mate. For such questions, evolution is not a perfect answer. Scientists are still wondering, what drives the instinct to mate?

2. Why sex makes you happy

Among the many chemical substances in the human brain, there is one name that stands out from everyone’s attention – dopamine. It is one of the chemical mediators of information transmission between neurons and helps to improve people’s mood and relieve stress, and sexual intercourse can promote the secretion of this substance.

3. How to Make Intercourse Happier

  • Enhance physical fitness: Generally speaking, people with better physical fitness will live longer, so basically, they should exercise and pay attention to nutrition.
  • Changing sex positions: Changing sex positions will add freshness to sex and prolong sex. The reason is that the muscles are more relaxed when the man exerts less force. Women will also get more pleasure from it.
  • Adjust the twitch speed: When there is a feeling of “ejaculation”, the man can pull out the male organ or suspend the twitch, which can reduce the sexual tension, and then resume the twitch according to the situation. Repeatedly repeating this action can significantly prolong the time of sexual activity.
  • Exercise with sex dolls: Sex is the work of two people. What matters is cooperation. Practice has proved that if women are good at guiding, men can appropriately extend the time of sexual activity, and women can obtain sufficient sexual satisfaction. When your spouse is unhappy, you can exercise sex with sex dolls, you can visit our sex doll list here

The Satisfyer Partner Multifun 2 Couples Vibe

Satisfyer Partner Multifun

If you’re looking for versatility in your sex toy, the Satisfyer Partner Multifun 2 has it in spades. It’s one of the best vibrators for couples because it can be used for virtually any purpose. The curved, U-like shape is similar to the We-Vibe Unite, but the tips pinch inward more (although they can easily be widened for maximum comfort). This unique shape means it can be used as a cock ring, a dual clitoral and g-spot stimulator or even a way to tease your partner’s nipples and other erogenous zones. 


The Multifun 2 has a motor in each tip and at the base, giving you full vibration coverage. The vibrators at the tips and base are controlled separately, each with ten modes of vibration — this thing has up to 100 different combination possibilities, meaning the depths of your pleasure will be seemingly endless! Use this mind-bendingly versatile vibrator with water-based lube and wash with warm soapy water when done.

Sexy Specs on the Satisfyer Partner Multifun 2 Couples Vibe

  • Length: 5.25″ (insertable length is 3.5″)
  • Girth: 6″ at largest point
  • Width: 2.75″
  • Power Source: USB Rechargeable
  • Waterproof: Yes
  • Available in a choice of Colours

Masturbation Guide

Masturbation Guide

Masturbation is an important, healthy and standard sexual activity that gives people the ability to experiment with self-pleasure in a safe atmosphere. Learning to masturbate helps us find out how our body works and in the future, will help you confide in your partner what you need during sexual intercourse. The Gossard Big M Survey found that over 92% of women participate in Masturbation. Two thirds of these women, masturbate three times a week.

Masturbation Methods

There are four different spots that can achieve a female orgasm including the Clitoris, G-Spot, A-Spot and the U-Spot. We will be looking at the two most common spots to orgasm including the Clitoris and G-Spot.


Clitoris stimulation is the easiest way to achieve orgasm and is located externally. The clitoris is located between the inner folds of the labia majora (outside lips) on the labia minora (inner lips) beneath the clitoral hood. When you are sexually stimulated the clitoris fills with blood making it hard and erect. The clitoris swells and retracts beneath the clitoral hood. The clitoris size, shape and location varies from person to person.

  • Water PressureIf you have a removable shower head or a pool/sauna with water jets, you can apply some warm water pressure onto your clitoris so you can begin to be aware of the pleasurable feeling that comes alongside clitoral stimulation.
  • Use Your Fingers: The most common method to begin masturbation is by using your fingers for pinpoint stimulation whilst rubbing in a circular motion. You may find your clitoris stimulated easily on one side more than the other.
  • Add a Layer: If you are finding your clitoris to be extra sensitive, massage your clitoris through your underwear or pants. The additional piece of clothing will cushion the pressure and any intense movements.
  • Invest in a Sex Toy: The Satisfyer Range are the most bought and recommended direct clitoral stimulators at Aussie Love Shop. Buying a sex toy may be the easiest way to achieve a quick orgasm as it is motorised and perfected to achieve the best results.
  • Grinding: Some people enjoy a more natural sensation of massaging their bodies into a softer or harder surface like a pillow. This type of stimulation will massage a bigger area and create a soft yet easy orgasm.


The G-spot also known as the Gräfenberg Spot is a delicate, grooved, coarse, bumpy, tissue that is 2.5cm to 5cms big. You can tell it’s the G-Spot because the area around it is smooth. It is located inside the front wall of the vagina and stimulation of this area can assist you to orgasm.

  • Use Your Fingers: Lie on your back. Use your fingers to massage the insides of your vagina. Your fingers should massage up to the ceiling. Massage the entrance walls of the vagina and G-Spot.
  • Invest in a Sex Toy: A sex toy with a simple curve will fulfil your needs for G-Spot stimulation. A beginner’s sex toy would be an Aphrodisia Fashion Succubi Bliss G or an OdecoInemes Ozone. They are both affordably priced and can be used for pinpoint stimulation. For easy penetration, it is recommended to use a water based lubricant to avoid any feelings of pain or uneasiness during your first time.

A blended orgasm is the combination of Clitoral Stimulation and G-Spot stimulation at the same time.

Erogenous Zones

There are two main erogenous zones that can assist in creating a stronger orgasm including the nipples and the anus.

Nipple Play

Nipple play is a common method to enhance sexual arousal within women. Female nipples are super sensitive due to their levels of estrogen and progesterone. Smaller nipples are more sensitive as the nerve endings are packed into a smaller space while larger nipples may require additional stimulation and pressure as the nerve endings are more widely spaced out.

Anal Play

Anal play can be combined with vaginal masturbation to create a stronger orgasm or sensual experience.

  • Use Your Fingers: Insert a finger and feel full to create a stronger orgasm.
  • But Plugs: Women can enjoy the fullness sensation of a butt plug or a dildo. Use lubricant. Don’t use a sex toy vaginally after it has been used anally. The sex toy must have a flared base. If you use a sex toy without a flared base, the anus may naturally suck it in causing you to need it to be professional removed in a hospital.

How to Achieve an Orgasm

  • Keep a Steady Pace: I have found the easiest way to achieve orgasm is to masturbate at a steady pace.
  • Clench Vaginal Muscles: Whilst focusing on maintaining the pleasurable sensation, softly clench your vaginal muscles to build up the pressure. The pleasurable sensation may increase or hold its feeling.
  • Follow the Orgasm: When you reach a peak your muscles through your body will begin to clench. Continue to masturbate at a steady pace. As you are about to orgasm you will suddenly experience an intense release of pleasure. Your body will now feel a multitude of sensations from shivering, stretching out, body spasms, electricity, flows of warmth and a strong sense of sexual release. Continue to masturbate until the orgasm softens.
  • Visual Stimulation: You may need additional visual stimulation to orgasm. Visual Stimulation may include day dreaming about one of your favourite fantasies. It can take time to develop what to think about but once you do, you’ll be able to achieve orgasms easier for the rest of your life. People who find fantasies to be difficult or need a change, can use erotic literature, porn magazines and DVDs.

First Hand Job

Hand jobs can be a fun and intimate experience especially if you feel passionate and happy to give one. Your lover will be able to relax and fully experience the pleasure if they know you are focusing on them.

  • Foreplay: If this is his first time receiving a hand job, he might be extremely nervous or excited so he might be soft or hard. So when you put your hand down his pants, you might not know what you are going to get. Sometimes it is quite intimidating and embarrassing the first time you do some sex play. If you do get a soft penis, it is enjoyable to touch his penis and feel it go from soft to fully erect. You can tease him whilst you massage his erection through his pants. And if you are super playful, you can tease him until he is really hard and begs for his penis to be touched. Don’t tease him to much though, some people don’t like it. Since this may be your first time it is recommended to begin passionately kissing his lips, neck and body. When you are in the mood to begin, lower your hand onto his crotch. You can either begin to rub his inner thigh close to his testicles and massage your hand gently onto his bulge. Clutch onto his bulge through his pants. He will feel extremely sexually frustrated and may begin to moan.
  • Take His Clothes Off: Now for the tricky part, getting his clothes off. You can remove his shirt, unbutton and unzip his pants and take them off. You can now begin to massage his package through his underwear or take off his underwear and go in for direct contact. He will enjoy either one.
  • Add Spit or Lubricant: An uncircumcised man has a foreskin that wraps around a man’s penis during masturbation which doesn’t need any additional lubrication. If you find yourself with a circumcised penis you may need to grip the foreskin below and pull it further up his shaft. Add some spit or lubricant if required. To do this add some of the product on your hand and begin gently massaging it into the penis. If you add lubricant to an uncircumcised or circumcised erection, it gives you the ability to slide your whole hand over his penis without causing any pain.
  • Ask Him: The quickest way to learn, is to get him to show you how he normally masturbates. Begin by watching his method, he will then let you grab on and try to show you how to appropriately give him a hand job. This will help him stimulate himself enjoyably whilst you are able to learn from him.
  • The Grip: On one hand, place your thumb and pointer finger together to make an “O” shape. You can grab onto the foreskin and move it up and down over his shaft.
  • Tightness: Try to make your hand as tight as your vagina would be during sex during his most pleasurable moments. You can try different amounts of tightness but make sure you are not hurting him in any way.
  • Speed: Men enjoy a steady speed. You can start off slow and increase the speed as he builds his orgasm. Ask him if he would like it slower or faster. When he is about to orgasm, release your grip a little bit and slow down. His penis will become super sensitive when he is about to orgasm and can make for a painful experience.
  • Two Handed: You can use two hands during the hand job. Lower one hand to the very bottom of his shaft. Place your other hand to cover the remaining part of his erection. You move your hands up and down whilst the top finger is still in the “O” grip.
  • Ball MassageBe extremely gentle and delicate with his balls. Cup his balls and massage them. He will feel a rush just from you touching them. You can fondle each ball separately or together. Gently squeeze, pull, cup tightly, jiggle and tug down. Use both hands and squeeze them together.
  • The Penis Head: The Penis Head is one of the most sensitive parts on the male due to the high amounts of nerve endings. Use the “O” grip and stimulate the very top of his head in small movements. He will love it.
  • Frenulum: The frenulum is skin that is on the underside of his penis. You can use the “O” grip to focus the hand job on his frenulum for 10 to 20 seconds. The Frenulum is extremely sensitive so it is recommended not to spend too much time massaging it.
  • Position: Position yourself so you are comfortable. If you are both laying down, lie on the side so you are able to use your dominant hand.
  • Anal Play: For the more experience he might like a finger in his anus to massage his prostate. Ask him what he would like, some men enjoy prostate massages and some don’t. Ensure your fingernails are cut so there are no sharp edges and they won’t point out to hurt him. Place some lubricant on your finger and insert it gently.

How To Give Oral Sex

How To Give Oral Sex

Blow Jobs

Blow jobs can be a pleasurable experience for both the giver and the receiver. It will take time to develop oral sex skills as you learn what is pleasurable.

  • Tease Him: Slowly run your hands over his mound with light delicate touches. Tease him, be gentle with your movements. Get him to take his clothes off. Massage his inner thigh area and run a finger or nail down his body. Gently touch his nipples and lick them if he enjoys them being stimulated. Cup his balls and gently massage them. Kiss down his neck and stomach.
  • Stimulate the Penis Head: The most sensitive part of his penis is the head and his frenulum which contains the most nerve endings. Lightly caress your lips against it teasing him that you are about to pleasure his cock. Gently suck, swirl and flick his penis head and frenulum.
  • Cock RingHold the base of his penis around with your finger and thumb. Your finger and thumb will act as a cock ring, which will trap his blow flow inside his erection making his erection become harder, longer lasting and bigger. He will enjoy seeing his erection at its maximum size.
  • Give Him Long Licks and Go Deeper: When you are ready you can give him long licks from the base of his penis to the very tip. Place your mouth on his penis and gently go down and up. You can use slight suction if you would like but keep it limited. Keep your teeth away from his erection at all times.
  • If He Can’t Fit Your Mouth: If you can’t take his whole erection in your mouth or you don’t want to. Wrap a hand around the base of his erection, jerk his shaft with the movements of your mouth.
  • Make Eye Contact: Make eye contact during the blow job, this will give him visual stimulation that you really want to pleasure his penis with your mouth. It will also display a level of sexual confidence which will make him very turned on.
  • Moan: When you are giving a blow job you can make moaning noises that will send vibrations down his shaft.
  • Give Him Control: You can grab his hands and place them on your head so he can control how he deeply and how fast he would like the blow job to be. If he gets to passionately involved and it gets too much for you, pull your head away and ask him to be gentle.
  • Provide Rhythm: People find it easier to orgasm if there is a certain rhythm to the blow job.
  • Gently Suck: If it gets to monotonous perform an 8 ball blow job on him which involves places your lips over the tip of his penis and giving 7 shallow sucks followed by 1 deeper suck. Then performing 6 shallow sucks followed by 2 deeper sucks.
  • Add Flavour: Flavoured lubricants such as Wicked, Kama Sutra, Wet Stuff and Id Lube will add a hint of flavour. Lubricant can be used for oral sex or hand jobs only but is not recommended for penetrative sex. If you would like additional protection of STI’s you can buy flavoured condoms like Naked Flavours 12 Pack so you have an assortment to choose from.
  • Take a Break: You may need to take a break from giving the blow job to avoid neck, head or jaw pain. You can continue on with foreplay or get him to give himself a hand job whilst you display how you pleasure yourself or how sexually you can touch your body.
  • Rehydrate: If you are prone to dehydration you can keep a glass of water nearby in case you need to take a sip. The cool liquid will also bring a cold sensation to your blow job.


Cunninglus is oral sexual stimulation of the clitoris or vulva. Cunninglus increases sexual arousal levels, self-lubrication levels and promotes relaxation. In some cases, if you provide pleasurable oral sex, penetrative sex can last a shorter amount of time.

  • Tease Her: Before you begin oral make her really want it by teasing her. Begin by kissing her passionately on her lips, neck and body. Move down her body and position yourself comfortably between her legs. Ensure your arms are in a good position to massage her body, breasts and nipples when you are giving oral.
  • Start Slowly: Be slow and gentle as the clitoris has a large amount of nerve endings making it sensitive and she may not be fully aroused yet. Begin slowly licking in larger circles and work your way into the middle. If she isn’t fully aroused, the clitoris could be too sensitive for strong flicks. Work towards a steady pace that does not stop.
  • Pace Yourself: Some women enjoy a completely steady and unchanging clitoral stimulation whereas other women completely adore not knowing what to expect. Ask her what she prefers.
  • Pay Attention: Pay attention to what she enjoys and ask her what she likes during oral sex. You can get her to apply pressure onto your hand/head or listen to the moaning or heavy breathing she makes when you do something she enjoys. When you find something she thoroughly enjoys do not discontinue or abruptly modify what you are doing. Settle on this method and do not stop until she orgasms or asks you to modify what you are doing.
  • Adapt to Change: She may like something one day and not enjoy it the next. On a daily, weekly, monthly or yearly basis you may need to change your oral technique. She might enjoy a different type of movement, pressure or speed.
  • Easy Oral: The easiest way to give oral is to keep your tongue soft, forgiving and totally level. Lick upwards, downwards or side to side on the vulva and clitoris.
  • Spell the Alphabet: For fun, spell the alphabet with your tongue. Find the letter’s that she most enjoys and stick to them. Repeat the letter until she asks you to change up your style. You can also give light suction on her clitoris.
  • Lift the Clitoral Hood: You can lift up the clitoral hood to find more directly stimulate the clitoris with your tongue.
  • G-Spot MassagePlace a finger inside her vagina to massage her G-Spot. Begin by gently massaging it and get her to tell you when she wants more this can help build up the orgasm further.
  • Display Affection: After she has reached orgasm you can relax with her and give her a hug if you wish. Ask her how you went, what she like and how you can improve for the future. More importantly, if you find something which she likes you can do it for next ti

Sex Guide

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Sex Guide


Here are some questions to ask yourself before you have sex:

  • Are you prepared to have sexDetermining whether to have sex for the very first time is a large event. The first question you ask yourself is “Am I Prepared For Sex?”. Being ready for sex is a personal decision. Only you can answer this question, no one can answer this question for you.
  • Did you really want to have sexIt is important to be honest and clear with your personal views of whether you would like to have sex. If you have a gut feeling that you shouldn’t, that is a warning sign that you are not ready to have sex.
  • What are the advantages and disadvantages of having sexWrite on a pieces of paper your advantages and disadvantages of having sex to keep a clear view of your thoughts.
  • Does having sex impact your values or go against who you are? Think about the moral and ethical foundation of your personality. Will having sex at the time reflect who you are?
  • Does having sex impact your education or career goals? Will having sex hinder you progressing for your short term or long term goals?
  • Will you experience emotional or physical problems if you have sexOur emotions can play a big role during and after sex. If you are not mentally prepared for sex, you may need to wait until you feel comfortable.
  • Is somebody coercing you to have sexIf you feel pressured or forced to have sex, don’t have sex!
  • Do your family and friends support your decision? If your family or friends don’t support you having sex for the first time you should ask yourself why they don’t. Maybe they have a completely logical view.
  • Would you like to be in a committed relationship for your first sexual experience? Do you love, respect and trust the person you want to have sex with?Does the person you want to have sex with love, respect and trust you? If you don’t have positive feelings for them or they don’t have positive feelings for you, having sex could have a negative emotional impact.
  • Is your partner ready to have sexFind out whether your partner would like to have sex to.
  • Have you Found out more about sexual intercourse? Speak to a friend, a family member or a health care provider about having sex for the first time.
  • Are You Using Contraception? If you are ready for sex, you should be able to talk to a general practitioner about contraception. If you have a contraception method in place you can begin considering having sex.
  • Did you want to have sex because everyone else is having sexSometimes people can feel peer pressured into having sex because they feel left out.
Sex Guide


The first step engaging in sex is beginning with foreplay. Foreplay can range from stripping, kissing, massaging, mutual masturbation, oral sex and dry humping. With foreplay it is best to take things slowly and last as long as you both need it to. Foreplay will let your body get ready for sexual intercourse as women will develop natural lubrication whilst men will become erect. Take your time with discovering what foreplay is with your partner. If this is your first time, a lot of people can remain in foreplay for weeks or months before they even consider penetrative sex.


Once you are both aroused, use your hand to guide the penis into the vagina. It takes a couple of times to find the entrance and work out how to insert the penis without discomfort. If you are finding it to be uncomfortable or to painful use some lubricant on the penis as well as on the entrance to your vagina.

To begin with, you may only want to put the tip of his penis inside so you can get used of the feeling. You can move your bodies slowly and gently until the vagina begins to expand to fit his penis. Make sure what you do feels good and if it feels uncomfortable say something. Ask each other questions to make sure you are both going okay.

If it is a woman’s first penetrative sexual encounter she may bleed during or after sex. This happens when a piece of skin called the hymen breaks. It is a thin piece of skin covering the vagina’s entrance.

Sex Positions

The best sex positions for intimacy and first time sex is traditional missionary or reverse missionary. Missionary are sex positions that give you control over the sexual experience whilst being able to display passion.

  • Traditional Missionary: Traditional missionary sex is when the woman lies down and the man is lying on top.
  • Reverse Missionary: Reverse missionary is when a man lies down and the women is lying on top.
  • Doggy Style: If you are ready to have some sexual fun with experimentation doggy style is a great position to hit the G-Spot.
  • Table Top: The woman lies on a table. The man holds your legs vertically in the air as he penetrates you.
  • The Spoon: If you are your partner are sleepy or just in the mood for sexual intercourse with not much effort, The Spoon sex position can meet your needs. He spoons you and enters you from behind. He can kiss your neck and talk into your ear.
  • The Lap Dance: He sits on a chair that has no arm rests and no sides. You lower yourself backwards into him. If your feet don’t touch the ground you will need to use heels.
  • The Quickie: The woman sits on a surface level to his penis. Wrap your legs around his waist.

After sometime of experimenting with movements and sex positions, you will both find select ones that give you more sexual pleasure. The pleasurable sensations can lead to either of you to come or reach a climax. Sometimes during sex you may not be able to reach a climax especially if it your first time.